Say goodbye to the man

What can you do if you are locked in your house due to health issues, if you are bed bound, or abandoned by the community, or maybe because there is no community, or if you alienated yourself and are becoming catatonic? What can you do if your relative, or someone in your proximity is in that state? There are quite a few people in similar states and people in their environment seem not to know how to help them. Maybe they don't want to help them, blinded by unconscious egotistic drives, by early childhood trauma induced destructive impulses. I think it would be a good idea to dwell on these questions and try to come up with possible answers. I keep having ideas about what I would do when I see people in similar states, often I would do things differently to how they are done usually. There are a lot of drugs and drugged individuals out there. There is a massive addiction to pharmaceutical drugs, TV, junk food, again, going unseen, perceived as normal. Try organic porridge instead of Kellogs cornflakes and other sugary-shit-cereals. Consider dumping your TV. Try yoga, meditation, blogging, one can learn using a computer and the internet even at 200 years of age. Even if you can only move an inch of your body, move it. There should be more people available to do massage therapy for others with limited, inhibited movement. It is common in the UK to leave people in their hospital beds for weeks. I heard many times from people that they were left in their beds for four-six weeks. That is just unacceptable. The purpose is probably to actually make them debilitated and more dependent on drugs and care. Also, some people seem to have promising plans with dependent people's property. I think, consciously or unconsciously, the way it works is that groups of people in health care profit from dependence, and that is the main drive for health care. It would be helpful to move towards contributing to a community of independent individuals. Listen to classical music. Instead of turning on the TV for someone catatonic, turn on classic fm. Music therapy. Self music therapy. TV streams death. Talk about NDEs, talk about dying. It is OK to die. Are you worried about losing your loved one or losing your inheritance? Locking "demented" individuals in their houses, not good. Locking them into a nursery home regime pseudo-safe prison scenario, not good. At least one elderly woman is being locked up in her own home by her daughter because "she has dementia and otherwise she wanders out." There should be a place available, where she can mix with healthy, living beings, ideally with some who understand childhood trauma and regression. There could be such a group available to go and visit her at her place and play music, and dance, or meditate together, take a walk, so that she would not have to wander alone. By the way, is anyone conscious of a concrete purpose for getting out of their homes? I mean, I think everyone wanders, and having been diagnosed with dementia or not, not one person seems to have a clue why. It might help, following natural dictates, if the natural state of one's body, or that of an other, would not be a taboo, if people would allow each other to wander naked anywhere on earth or extra terra or extra materia. How sick we are as a humanity being afraid of the sight of our own bodies. Instead of the police bringing her home locking her up, they could celebrate life together. As I write this, this example connects to the story of the 14 year old girl who ran away from her sick family after being forced into an arranged marriage and getting raped by her adult "husband". The elderly woman is in a state of regression and naturally runs away from the locked up state (of consciousness), similarly to the 14 year old girl, and they are both being brought back by police. One important aspect of the elderly woman's situation is that she probably abused her daughter the exact same way. Probably she locked her daughter up as a way of punishment for some power related, childhood trauma generated unconscious reason. Also, another scenario I come across a few times is when the grown up children of frail elderly persons treat their parents as little children. I think of attitudes that generate phrases such as "Say goodbye to the man" and "Did you you say thank you?" and "Can I have a smile?". Often the whole environment and circumstances resemble the sine qua non abusive dependent child-parent relationship. My initial reaction to these situations was "Wow..." and that this was not right, they should not disrespect these elderly people. Although I still think it is not right, I realized that these grown up children react in ways they have learnt to react from those exact same parents when they were children. This is, for them, them way to treat a vulnerable, dependent creature. Abusive.

I know that the the reason for whale killing is child abuse, but what is the solution? How to contribute to people becoming more conscious of the truth? Conscious of the underlying factors for our actions. R.D. Laing suggested that it is more important to get out of prison than getting to know the reasons for getting in. So how do we get out? At this moment I think it is important to understand how child abuse drives violent act out. It would be transformative for individuals driven by unconscious hatred towards their parents to realize that they were abused and that is why they enjoy cutting the heads off of cetaceans who are unable to defend themselves, who probably come happily to aid us and make friends, to exchange ways of living a freer, fuller, richer existence. It would be transformative for communities of people to realize, to become able to see that torture is a metaphor for having been tortured.